Herpes is a common viral infection that can affect the mouth, genitals, or other parts of the body. While many cases cause only mild or periodic symptoms, others can become painful, persistent, or lead to complications that require urgent medical care. Because herpes is lifelong once acquired, understanding how it spreads, how it presents, and when to seek immediate help is essential for managing health and preventing transmission.
What Is Herpes?
Herpes is caused by the herpes simplex virus (HSV), which exists in two main forms: HSV-1 and HSV-2. HSV-1 is most often associated with cold sores around the mouth, while HSV-2 is typically linked to genital herpes. However, either type can affect both areas, depending on how the virus is transmitted.
Once contracted, the virus remains in the body for life. Herpes can be transmitted even when no sores are visible, through a process called asymptomatic viral shedding. This is why protection and open communication with partners are important, even between outbreaks.
Common Symptoms
Herpes symptoms vary depending on the location of infection and whether it’s a first outbreak or a recurrence.
- Painful blisters or sores around the mouth, genitals, or rectum
- Itching, tingling, or burning sensations before sores appear
- Swollen lymph nodes during an outbreak
- Flu-like symptoms, including fever or body aches, during the initial infection
The first herpes outbreak is often the most severe, with more numerous sores and stronger flu-like symptoms. Some people, however, never experience classic sores and may only have mild redness or irritation. Genital herpes can also present as minor cuts, fissures, or itching, which may be mistaken for other conditions.
Daily antiviral medications, called suppressive therapy, can reduce the number and severity of outbreaks. This approach is especially useful for those with frequent recurrences or to lower the risk of transmitting herpes to partners.
When Herpes Becomes an Emergency
Most herpes outbreaks can be managed with antiviral medications prescribed by a healthcare provider. However, certain symptoms mean the infection has become more serious and requires emergency care. Seek immediate help if you experience:
- Severe or widespread sores that make urination, eating, or mobility difficult
- Eye involvement, which may cause redness, pain, or vision changes
- High fever, headache, or confusion along with an outbreak
- Signs of secondary infection, such as pus or spreading redness around sores
- Herpes symptoms during pregnancy, which may put newborns at risk
Immunocompromised patients, including those with HIV, on chemotherapy, or taking immune-suppressing drugs, are at much higher risk for severe or disseminated herpes. For these individuals, even a “routine” outbreak may warrant urgent evaluation.
In rare cases, herpes can spread to the brain (herpes encephalitis) or eyes, both of which require urgent treatment to prevent lasting damage.
Herpes in Infants and Children
While herpes is usually spread through sexual contact in adults, infants can contract the virus during childbirth if the mother has an active infection. Neonatal herpes is extremely dangerous and can lead to severe illness or death if untreated. Look for poor feeding, lethargy, seizures, skin blisters, or irritability. Babies born to mothers with active genital herpes at delivery should always be evaluated for antiviral treatment.
Children may also contract oral herpes through nonsexual contact, such as sharing utensils or kisses from relatives with cold sores. While most cases are mild, any severe symptoms should be evaluated promptly.
How the ER Can Help
At Sugar Land ER, patients experiencing severe herpes outbreaks are evaluated quickly. Care may include:
- Antiviral medication to shorten outbreaks and reduce symptom severity
- Pain management for discomfort caused by widespread sores
- IV fluids and medications if dehydration, fever, or systemic illness is present
- Eye or neurological evaluation if symptoms suggest more serious spread
After stabilization, follow-up with an infectious disease specialist or OB/GYN is often needed for pregnant women, infants, or immunocompromised patients. Eye involvement requires urgent ophthalmology consultation.
Preventing Transmission
Herpes spreads most easily when sores are visible, but it can also spread during periods when no symptoms are present. Preventive measures include:
- Using condoms or dental dams during sexual activity
- Avoiding contact when sores are present
- Not sharing utensils, lip balm, or drinks with someone who has oral herpes
- Talking openly with partners about risk and testing
Antiviral medications may also help reduce the frequency of outbreaks and lower the risk of transmission.
Emotional and Social Impact
Beyond the physical discomfort, herpes often carries emotional challenges. Many people feel embarrassment, anxiety, or fear about relationships and disclosure. It’s important to remember that herpes is extremely common, affecting millions of people worldwide, and it does not define a person’s health or worth. Support groups, counseling, and open communication with healthcare providers can help patients manage both the physical and emotional aspects of living with herpes.
When to Call Your Doctor vs. the ER
In most cases, herpes can be managed with a doctor’s visit and prescribed medication. However, the ER is the right place to go if symptoms are severe, spreading quickly, or causing systemic illness. Contact your provider if you have your first-ever herpes outbreak, symptoms that are severe or spreading, vision changes, confusion, or if you are pregnant or immunocompromised. For infants with any fever, rash, or lethargy, seek immediate emergency care.
Relief and Protection When You Need It
Herpes is extremely common and manageable with the right information and care. Seeking help early for severe symptoms protects your health and helps prevent complications for you and others.
Sugar Land ER is open 24/7 with no wait times. Our emergency team provides immediate evaluation, antiviral treatment, and supportive care for severe herpes outbreaks, ensuring patients get relief and protection when it matters most.

